You Should Just Start

I still remember the first time when I took my piano lesson, I was flabbergasted. All those hours dedicated to watching and listening to “Beautiful Piano Music for Studying and Sleeping” seemed like a futile investment. I had nurtured the unrealistic expectation that I would be capable of playing Your Lie in April after a mere 3 or 4 classes but after that lesson I was like, nevermind, I give up. It’s either too tough for me because my thoughts and judgment about playing piano are clouded by Fonzi M as he effortlessly glided across the keys in renditions of the most intricate songs I knew or I am just lazy.

But then my mom suddenly purchased a piano with the thought of her son would grace every family occasion with renditions of. “La Campanella” after that one piano lesson. I was happy but at the same time I felt lost, unsure of how to proceed. as my earlier discouragement lingered, convincing me that the piano was merely an ornament, and the decision to acquire it was a wasted effort as I am not going to play it anyways. Weeks passed, and yes I was still heavily discouraged because I couldn’t cope with the reality that I couldn’t even play half of my favorite song. Eventually, I made the decision to discontinue my piano lessons.

Every time I wanted to go out, I found myself walking past the piano that my mom bought, which had gradually begun to accumulate. dust like, no joke. Occasionally, my mom would remind me once in a while to play the piano because she just wants to listen to it. Depending on my mood, I will play a song or two of her choosing, but I never really put my heart into it. However, on a particular day,I pondered the idea of lowering my expectations and committing to regular practice, and I decided to give it a try. Even if I won’t be able to play my favorite songs flawlessly after six months of consistent practice, I reasoned that I would still be better than I was before. What did I have to lose? Just my time? I was going to spend it all on Hearthstone anyways. After six months, I can confidently say that it was indeed the best decision I have ever made.

The only perfect timing is now

Dude, seriously, waiting around for the “perfect timing”? That’s just a myth. Life is a dynamic and unpredictable journey, and if you’re waiting for everything to align perfectly, you’re gonna miss out big time. Learning? It’s all about taking action. That first step is where the real magic happens. Forget about perfection, it’s progress that counts. Once you start, suddenly, you’re on a roll, overcoming challenges left and right.

Dive into what you’re passionate about, that’s where adaptability and resilience kick in. Trust me, opportunities don’t just fall into your lap; you have togo out there and grab them. Waiting? That’s just a ticket to Regretville. Facing challenges? That’s where the real growth happens, much better than waiting for some perfect conditions that might never come. So, don’t linger on the sidelines; jump into the game!

Stop comparing yourself to others

Avoid constantly comparing yourself to other successful individuals, as this can serve as a significant barrier to initiate your own endeavors. Each person’s journey is unique, shaped by a distinct combination of personal experiences, circumstances, and timing. When engaging in comparisons, these distinctive characteristics are often overlooked, leading to unreasonable expectations or a sense of inadequacy. Moreover, the accomplishments of successful individuals are frequently the product of their own mistakes, setbacks, and perseverance – elements that may not be apparent in a brief comparison. Constant comparison has the potential to undermine one’s self-esteem and creativity, fostering a fear of failure or the belief that success is unattainable unless one follows in someone else’s footstep. Such a. mindset hampers innovation and personal expression, making it difficult to generate fresh thoughts and approaches.

Success is a subjective concept, defined differently by each individual. What proves effective for one individual may not align with the ideals and ambitions of another. It is essential to establish your own goals and priorities rather than seeking guidance from others.

Focus on the journey

Shifting away from the obsession with the end goal and embracing the journey itself is where the true essence lies. Seriously, immersing oneself in the journey is akin to a continuous upgrade, leveling up with every step taken. It extend beyond the attainment of major goals, it involves appreciating the small wins and evolving through challenges and unexpected twists.

Let’s talk about creativity, the journey becomes your personal playground, a space to experiment with wild ideas and discover innovative solutions. Plus, who needs unnecessary stress and anxiety? Redirecting focus towards the journey maintains a sense of calm, promotes mindfulness, and brings a fresh vibe into the grind. It’s not merely about reaching a. destination. It’s about enjoying the entire ride, leveling up, and transforming the entire pursuit into a pleasurable and enriching experience.

Focus on yourself

Worrying about what other people think when you’re starting something is counterproductive. Firstly, everyone has their own pursuits, dreams, struggles, and aspirations – most folks are too preoccupied with. their own lives to scrutinize your every move. Secondly, let’s be real, the fear of judgment is like a creativity killer. If you’re constantly concerned about others’s opinions, you’ll end up diluting. your ideas and deviating from your authentic self .

And here’s the thing, haters gonna hate no matter what you do. So, expanding. energy on worrying about their opinion is futile endeavor The truth is, those. who truly matter and understand your journey will have your back. And if someone’s got a negative opinion? Well, that’s their prerogative, not yours. Embrace the uniqueness you bring to the table, the right people will resonate with it. So, release the fear, stay focused on your own path, and remember, what others. think of you is none of your business. Just be true to yourself.

Stop procrastinating and being lazy

Let’s delve into the science behind why overcoming laziness and procrastination can be a game-changer. Research consistently demonstrates the adverse impacts of procrastination on both mental and physical well-being. A study published in Psychological Science (Tice & Baumeister, 1997) revealed that procrastination is correlated. with higher levels of stress and lower subjective well-being. Chronic procrastination has also been linked to elevated levels of anxiety and depression (Steel, 2007). Now, considering productivity, A study in the Journal of Applied Psychology (Steel, 2007) disclosed a significant negative correlation between procrastination and job performance. It appears that individuals who procrastinate are more likely to experience lower academic and workplace achievements. Another study published in the Journal of Behavioral Medicine (Sirois, 2014) highlighted the connection between procrastination and increased health problems, emphasizing the importance of breaking free from this habit for overall well-being.

However It’s not all doom and gloom, taking action has some serious perks. Research in the Journal of Positive Psychology (Seligman et al., 2005) indicates that engaging in meaningful activities and setting and working towards personal goals are strongly associated with increased happiness and life satisfaction. So, when you bid procrastination farewell and start taking actions, you’re not only accomplishing tasks; you’re actively boosting your mood and satisfaction with life. Moreover, neuroscience sheds light on the brain’s reward system. When you take action, you trigger the release of dopamine, the neurotransmitter associated with pleasure and reward. Therefore, by making progress, you are not only achieving tasks, but you’re also giving your brain a dose of the good stuff.

Conclusion

In essence, the key to a fulfilling and successful journey involves embracing the present moment, and recognizing that the only perfect timing is now. Dispelling the myths of waiting for ideal conditions or comparing oneself to others is crucial, as these tendencies hinder progress and stifle creativity. Instead, directing attention to the journey itself – with its small victories, challenges, and opportunities for growth, cultivates a mindset of adaptability and resilience.

Shunning the fear of judgment and external opinions allows for the authentic expression of individuality, promoting self-confidence and establishing genuine connections. Lastly, breaking free from the grips of procrastination and laziness unleashes a cascade of positive effects on mental well-being and productivity. Research affirms that taking action not only accomplishes tasks but also boosts happiness and life satisfaction by activating the brain’s reward system.

In essence, the path to personal growth and fulfillment is paved with the commitment to start now, relish the journey, stay true to oneself, and actively engage in the pursuit of meaningful goals.

[Written By: Daniel, Edited by: Emily Tang]